Sex toys can spice up most experiences in the bedroom.
While there are many toys to choose from, sex toy designers have created some unique designs that stimulate the male g-spot, also known as the prostate, to evoke intense and awesome orgasms.
The prostate is a pleasure organ located 2-3 inches inside of a man’s anus. To learn more about how to locate and stimulate this organ manually, check out our guide to How to Have a Prostate Orgasm.
If you are ready to see what it is like to have, receive, or give mind-blowing orgasms using toys, the list below contains 13 prostate massagers and stimulators that can help you figure out which toy will fit your needs or those of your partner.
If you are just getting started and new to prostate stimulators and massagers, or have been stimulating the prostate for a while, Dr. Joel’s Prostate Massager is your toy. It is small – only 7.25 inches long with a girth of 3 inches and designed to help you find the prostate easily. With the right amount of lube, the locator can easily slide into the anus and push against the prostate with its curved, firm probe. The silky-smooth texture evokes additional sensual stimulations, ideal for regular use. The locator is body safe, free from porous latex and phthalates. If your only goal is to locate the prostate, Dr. Joel’s design is made to help you achieve it while also bringing you pleasure.
In the market for something firm, for a hard-pleasurable shag? A Nexus Revo can get the job done. The prostate massager’s slim design is perfect for beginners. With the right amount of oil-based or water lube, the firm massager will position itself pleasingly at the prostate with its curvaceous design. With a base that has ridges leading to the handle, the Nexus Revo also excites pleasure near the perineum. When used with a partner, the massager’s curvy handle helps the Revo move with the body while keeping it in place if the user is lying on their back. The Nexus Revo is a small massager with an insertable length of 4 inches and 3.75 circumferences. Users who are looking for something with less flexibility, and something a little sturdier might enjoy the Nexus Revo Prostate Massager, regardless of whether they are beginners or veterans. Also comes with a remote control for the ultimate solo play.
The Aneros prostate massager is a sleek, firm, and slender redesigned evolution from the Aneros Euph Classic. Due to its petite structure, the stimulator can easily find the prostate. At a length of 4 inches, a 1-inch mid-width, and a tip width of 3 inches, the velvety silicone surface covers the hard-plastic material that makes the massager sturdy. Towards the base of the massager, there are two bumps, one to pass the sphincter (opening muscles), and one right at the sphincter, which can help with Kegel exercises. The base of the Helix Syn is designed to massage the perineum and provides a tad bit of stimulating pressure. Although the Aneros Prostate Stimulator is said to be for advanced anal enthusiasts, the massager can also be good for beginners who would enjoy a little more stimulation in the anal canal.
A butt plug handcrafted out of glass will not only leave you breathless, but its sleek design can stimulate your prostate in a refreshing way. The glass material can be cooling to the touch, which sends pleasurable chills to the most hypersensitive area of your body-the prostate. The right amount of water or silicone lube can easily slide the plug into the anal canal. The Icicle’s tapered tip is crafted for easy insertion as it widens into a bulb and slims down into a narrow neck, for the sphincters to wrap around and hold the plug in place up to its rounded base that sits outside the buttocks. Icicles Prostate Plug is made out of hypoallergenic glass that is porous free and body safe. The insertable length is 4.5 in. with a 4.75 in circumference. The glass butt plug is sturdy and hard due to its material, but its sleek design makes it a desirable experience for the prostate.
5. Lelo Bruno
The world’s most pleasurable prostate massager known as Bruno, and has the built-in power to give a man the most powerful orgasm he has ever experienced. The curved designed can easily locate the prostate and have a man begging for more when the vibrator in the smooth, tapered tip is activated. The vibrating base gives a man dual pleasure while it stimulates the perineum and teases the opening of the anus. The 2-motor vibrating prostate massager is a waterproof, body safe silicone/ABS (hard plastic) design. Its medium size is excellent for all users no matter their level of anal play. With 6 variations of vibrational patterns, the vibrator is battery operated and can be used for up to two hours after it is fully charged. The prostate massager is 3.4 inches long and 1.28 inches wide, a comfortable sensation that can blow a man’s mind away.
Designed with a “come hither” motion, the Lelo Loki Wave is a prostate massager that delivers stimulation to a man that is usually felt through manual stimulation. The wave is a sleek design with a dual motor which stimulates internal and external pleasure. Loki is made from silicone which is body safe and waterproof. Loki is somewhat of a large toy, with a length of 8 inches, insertion tip of 4 inches, and a girth of 4.5 inches. A perfectly crafted bulb that sways back and forth is one of ten stimulating modes to an intense, gratifying orgasm of the prostate.
CalExotics has put together a kit for beginners to learn which prostate massagers stimulates them the most. The kit contains stimulating toys with one motive: target the G-spot. The pleasure toys are Silicone Prostate Probe, Silicone Prostate Probe with Ring, Silicone Beaded Prostate Probe, and Multi-Speed Stimulator. The massagers are all made from silky body-safe hypoallergenic pure silicone and hard plastic. While three of the massagers can be used manually, the Multi-Speed Stimulator runs off of 2 AAA batteries, which are sold separately. Each item is specifically handpicked for a person with a prostate to experience test various toys and figure out which one can offer the most arousing orgasmic experience.
Below is a detailed description of what to expect in the Prostate Training Kit for him.
Silicone Prostate Probe
A silky plug made to prepare the anal entrance for sensual stimulation. It has a petite, smooth tip shaped in a rounded sphere, and a smooth taper for the head, and a thicker body. It has a wide base for grip and protection from too-deep penetration. The Probe is 4.75” (12cm) and it has a slim neck that flexes for an increased amount of pleasure. It is a body safe toy made from silicone and a velvety matte touch.
Silicone Prostate Probe with Ring
A 3.5” (9cm), a butt plug with a stretchy angle that stimulates the cock and ball ring for stamina, sensation, and support. It is designed to fit over the penis and testicles. The Probe with a ring is thick and curvy, designed to target the P-spot. The toy can be used for solo or partnered play. Once the ring is on the probes’ shaft, it can easily penetrate the anal canal and stimulate various erogenous zones along the way.
Silicone Beaded Prostate Probe
Five beads that swell and stretch gradually as they penetrate and stimulate the anal canal with ease. The velvety silicone bead is flexible and designed in a curve with a ring base.
Includes a handheld remote that controls various vibration for an intensified orgasmic experience. The stimulator is a silver bullet that connects to the remote by a 25” cord.
A large vibrating butt plug made for the experienced anal enthusiast. The rimming delivers an experience that can be exhilarating. The plug has 7 rotating and 6 vibration patterns, and intense rotating levels. B-Vibe placed rotating beads near the tapered tip of the plug to massage, caress, and rub the prostate. It is USB rechargeable and can be operated with or without its remote up to 30 feet away. It is made from 100% silicone.
9. Je Joue- Nuo
The Je Joue-Nuo is designed to be an app-controlled couples’ butt plug, meaning that it can be controlled with an app, even from far distances. Touted as an ideal sex toy for long distance relationships, this product is a great way to feel closer to your partner, even from afar. It is a silky-smooth design shaped with a gentle curve and a round body. Its slender design is crafted to follow the body’s natural lines, so it can easily fit between the buttocks. There are two motors within the Nuo for simultaneous or separate stimulation for the perineum and prostate. The app that is used to control the Je Joue-Nuo also allows you to create a playlist, you can connect with your partner anywhere.
Ditto is a vibrating butt plug that can be controlled by the We-connect app or remote. Its small body is made of smooth body-safe silicone it is free from phthalates, latex, and BPA. The butt plug is also 100% waterproof, making it durable for any occasion or setting. It is USB rechargeable, so it can be used without a cord, and the battery can last up to 2 hours with a full charge of 90 minutes. The Ditto has 10 vibration modes including a rumbling vibration. The vibrating dimensions are 68.45mm x 88.10mm, making it fun for couples to stimulate each other comfortably anywhere.
The Cowboy is a dual motor stimulator with a “powerful punch.” The prostate vibe is made from silky silicone, at a length of 15cm and a diameter of 3cm. It has two powerful motors which are controlled by a remote control and it is splash proof, meaning it can be used in the shower. Cowboy can be charged using a USB, and its battery life lasts for up to two hours. The prostate vibe has 10 vibrational modes and one button that can easily control them all. When it comes to the vibrator, couples don’t have to worry about others hearing the sexual stimulation occurring between them while in public due to its quietness.
Quiet and powerful is what you get from the Nexus Revo Stealth. The prostate massager is made from a body safe, hypoallergenic, silky smooth silicone, ABS plastic base and is non-porous. The silky-smooth shaft rotates at 2 speeds; low 25-RPM and high 35 RPM. Stealth has a vibrating shaft and base to give the user a rotating vibrating sensation stimulating both the prostate and the perineum. Nexus Revo Stealth has 6 vibrational patterns controlled by a wireless remote control up to 15 meters away. There is no need for batteries for the toy. It uses a USB cable that gives its user a possible 10-hour battery life once it is fully charged after only 3.5-hours. It is a good toy for couple or solo play because a user can straddle the Revo while being intimate with their partner.
Rock-Off offers a hands-free experience that takes a person on an orgasmic ride as it vibrates powerfully against the perineum. It is a two-in-one toy that can easily be inserted into the anus to massage the prostate while stimulating the perineum. The Big Boy has 10 vibrational settings, 3 speeds that range from high and low, along with 7 pulsation patterns to help you achieve the ultimate orgasm. It uses a USB to recharge for up to 60-minutes. It is 100% waterproof and an on and off power button. The massager is and it is made out of flexible, body-safe silicone, which is ultra-soft.
Keep in mind that while looking for the perfect prostate massager for you or a partner, prostate massagers and stimulators can be used by anyone, whether it is specified for a beginner, a veteran, a toy for couples, or self-use.
What is a Prostate Massager?
A prostate massager is a mechanical toy similar in shape to a finger that explicitly massages the prostate gland. These devices usually have a slightly curved head to better reach the prostate, although the type of equipment ranges from simple dildos to G-spot vibrators. Prostate massagers tend to be slimmer than traditional dildos as well as softer. Many have a flared end to prevent the devices from being fully inserted and lost inside the anus. The primary intention of prostate massagers is stimulating the prostate after insertion into the rectum to heighten sexual pleasure. They are often used during foreplay by many partners. G-spot vibrators can be used as prostate massagers if the user handles it carefully, and the toy has a safety base that will prevent it from being lost in the rectum. They type of vibrators also have a pronounced curve at the end.
What to Look for When Using a Prostate Massager
The last thing to remember is that you have to find the massager that is right for you. That means your partner may want a different model, and that’s okay. Think of it this way: just as dicks come in different shapes and sizes, the route to pleasurable prostate sensation will be different for every guy.
Consider the Size
Prostate massagers are usually designed for shape; however, you’ll still find variations in size. If you haven’t used one before, try a slimmer one first until you get used to the sensation.
Many models have hands-free so that when inserted, the toy can do massaging without assistance. Note that it can take a bit of practice to achieve this Holy Grail without your hands.
Judge the Handle
Prostate toys have a variety of handles. Some will have a circular one, while others have a flat base. Think about your body and physical conditions when selecting one for frequent use.
Not all prostate toys provide vibrations because not all guys find them pleasurable. Only select a vibrating massager if you think it will give you, or your partner, pleasure. If you are unsure if vibrations will work for you or your partner, buy a toy with a removable vibrating bullet so you can try it both ways. However, if you know that vibrations will give you a mind-blowing orgasm, go for a prostate toy with built-in vibrations.
Your Taint Wants Love Too
You know how good it feels to have your perineal area stimulated. If you or your partner like that sensation, find a prostate toy that has a small tab built into the base to stimulate your taint. Try pressing on that area the next time you have sex. If you enjoy that sensation, look for a toy that strokes the perineal area at the same time.
How to Use a Prostate Massager
The whole idea behind prostate massagers is to get the most mind-blowing orgasm you’ve ever had in your life. They’re perfect for single guys because, after all, those personal handjobs get pretty dull. They’re also great for use with your partner when you want to spice things up a bit. Realize that preparation and finding just the right spot is key to the experience, so don’t give up on it if you don’t get it the first time around. Just be patient.
Step One-Clean Up
Although it may sound strange, try to have a bowel movement at least an hour before starting our session and following that with a cleansing bath because you’ll want the area around the rectum to be completely clean. Your rectum will feel quite full when using the massager, so it’s wise to complete body processes beforehand; otherwise, you may end up with a mess.
Step Two-Locate the Prostate
If you’ve done prostate play before, you know where it’s at, but if you haven’t, you’ll need to find it. Most prostates are located about three inches inside the anus, although, for some guys, it’s located further back. It’s a good idea to locate your prostate with your finger before you buy a toy, so you’ll have one that suits your body and the depth of your prostate. Apply some club to your finger and start feeling around. When you locate a walnut-like structure, you have found your prostate.
Step Three-Lube Up
This step is one of the most important as you’ll have a bulbous device in your anus. Apply a generous amount of lube on the toy and your finger, as well as making sure that the lube you have chosen is compatible with the toy. If you’re not sure which lube you should use, consult the instructions that come with the toy.
Step Four-Correct Position
Your body or your partner’s needs to be in the right position to access the rectum easily. Lie on your back, bend your knees and pull your feet toward your butt. Another position involves suspending your legs so that your knees are perpendicular over your hips. You can also lie sideways with your knees tucked up to your hips. Again, remember that every guy is different. The idea is to be able to access the rectum easily. Experiment for several minutes to see what works best.
Step Five-Inserting and Using
Again, make sure you have plenty of lube on the toy. Too much is better than not enough because you don’t want to have any pain associated with it. Once you have inserted it, relax and just get used to the sensation of the toy inside your body. Play some music and just enjoy the moment for up to 20 minutes before you start to use it. Beginners will have to manually move the toy up and down to stimulate the prostate, but once you get the hang of it, you can achieve prostate massage by clenching and unflinching your pelvic muscles. If you’re not sure what this feels like, think of what you do when you stop urination mid-stream. It’s the same thing.
Realize that it takes time to reach the mind-blowing orgasm that will radiate through your body. It may take 30 minutes, but it will be worth every second. It may also take several sessions before you get the result you want. Best of all, there is no refractory period with a prostate massage. You’ll be ready immediately to go again.
How to Insert a Prostate Massager
Although we detailed insertion in the last step, it bears repeating that you should use lots of lube and insert the toy gently because the prostate is a delicate gland. Never thrust it inside your anus. The correct way to use it involves a light to medium repetitive motion. Slightly push out your rectum to help open your anus. Just breathe into it and do it slowly. The toy will feel like it’s being pulled inside you once it’s halfway in. Remember, all you have to do is breathe, relax, and enjoy!