Are you questioning your sexual orientation? Understanding your sexuality can be complex and nuanced, and everyone’s journey is going to be uniquely theirs. Our quiz will help you explore your feelings and experiences related to attraction, comfort, and identity. By answering a series of questions, you’ll gain insight into your own thoughts and feelings and may come to a better understanding of your sexual orientation.. or maybe not.
Whether you’re curious about your sexuality for the first time or have long suspected that you might be gay, this quiz can help you take the first step in understanding yourself and your sexuality.
#1. Do you experience romantic or sexual attraction to people of the same gender?
#2. Have you ever had a crush on someone of the same gender?
#3. Have you ever had a romantic or sexual relationship with someone of the same gender?
#4. Do you feel more comfortable and/or happier around people of the same gender?
#5. Have you ever felt discomfort or confusion about your sexual orientation?
#6. Do you feel more connected or drawn to your own gender?
#7. Have you ever felt like you don't fit in with societal expectations or stereotypes of your gender?
#8. Have you ever had thoughts or fantasies about being with someone of the same gender?
#9. Do you find yourself frequently checking out or admiring people of the same gender?
#10. Have you ever questioned your own sexual orientation or felt unsure about it?
#11. Do you feel more attracted to the same gender in terms of aesthetics (clothing, hairstyles, etc.)?
#12. Have you ever felt like you could be attracted to people of any gender?
#13. Do you feel more comfortable expressing yourself and your identity around people of the same gender?
#14. Have you ever felt like you were "supposed" to be attracted to the opposite gender, but just weren't?
#15. Have you ever felt like you might be more attracted to people of the same gender, but haven't acted on it?
#16. Do you find yourself more attracted to the same gender in media or pop culture?
#17. Have you ever felt like your sexual orientation might be different from what you thought it was?
#18. Do you feel like your sexual orientation is different from the majority of your peers?
#19. Have you ever felt like you might be gay, but have been afraid to explore or express that part of your identity?
#20. Do you feel more at home in LGBTQ+ communities or events?
#21. Have you ever felt like you might be gay, but were hesitant to fully embrace or identify as such?
#22. Do you feel more comfortable or authentic when you express gender non-conforming traits or behaviors?
#23. Have you ever had a hard time understanding or relating to romantic or sexual attractions to people of the opposite gender?
#24. Do you feel more comfortable or authentic when you express attraction to people of the same gender?
#25. Have you ever felt like your sexual orientation is a fluid or constantly changing aspect of your identity?
Am I Gay? Quiz Answer Guide
If you answered mostly Yes:
Congratulations, darling! It seems like you’re embracing and celebrating your gayness and attraction to the same gender! Embracing your true self can be a beautiful and liberating experience, so keep holding onto that. Remember, everyone’s journey to self-discovery is unique, and it’s completely okay to take your time and explore your feelings. Don’t let anyone else’s timeline dictate yours, ever.
If you answered mostly No:
Well, well, well. It would appear that you have a very strong preference for someone of the opposite gender, and you are at ease with the identity that you have chosen. But let me remind you that sexual orientation can be fluid, and it’s important to question and explore your feelings. Don’t just limit yourself to what society considers “normal” or “acceptable.” It’s your life, and you deserve to be true to yourself.
If you answered mostly Only A Little Bit:
Oh, sweetie. It appears that you’re on a self-discovery journey and questioning your sexual orientation. Trust me. You’re not alone. This is a normal part of growing and figuring out who you are. It’s okay to have these feelings and question your identity. Take your time, and don’t rush to any conclusions. Remember, there’s no right or wrong way to discover yourself.
If you answered mostly I’m Not Sure:
And that’s okay too! You seem to be on a quest for self-discovery and are debating your sexual orientation. And let me tell you, it can be a wild ride. But it’s important to remember that this is completely normal and you’re just taking charge in trying to figure out who you are. It’s okay to question and explore your identity. Remember, there’s no right or wrong way to discover yourself.
Whether you answered mostly A’s, B’s, C’s, or D’s, it’s important to remember that everyone’s journey of self-discovery is unique, and it’s okay to take your time exploring your feelings. It’s also important to remember that sexual orientation can be fluid and that it’s okay to question and explore your identity. Don’t let social norms or timelines hold you back. Most importantly, don’t forget to love and celebrate yourself. Remember, you deserve to be true to yourself and live your life on your own terms. So, go forth and be fabulous, darling!
Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity – A Complete Glossary
Welcome to the colorful world of sexual orientation and gender identity. It’s a realm teeming with a rich tapestry of terms and concepts, each with its unique story. This glossary is an invitation to dive into the depths of the LGBTQIA+ community, where every term holds a weight of meaning and significance.
Whether you’re a student, an ally, or an individual questioning your identity, this guide is a valuable tool for navigating the diverse landscape of gender and sexuality.
A man who is attracted to other men, whether romantically, sexually, or emotionally. The term is used to describe a man who is only attracted to other men, but it can also be used to describe anyone of any gender who is attracted to someone of the same gender, no matter how strong or intense that attraction is.
A lesbian is a woman who is attracted to other women romantically, sexually, or emotionally. The term describes a woman who is exclusively attracted to other women. Still, it can also be used as an umbrella term to include any woman who is attracted to other women.
A person who is attracted to both men and women, whether romantically, sexually, or emotionally. Bisexuality refers to the capacity for attraction to people of multiple genders; it doesn’t mean that a person is equally attracted to all genders, and one can experience different degrees of attraction at different times.
A person whose gender identity does not match the sex they were assigned at birth. They may identify as a different gender or as having no gender. People who are transgender may transition medically and/or socially; this transition can include but is not limited to hormone replacement therapy, surgeries, and/or name and pronoun change.
A term that has been reclaimed by the LGBTQIA+ community and can be used as an umbrella term for all people who are not heterosexual and/or cisgender or as a more specific identity for people who reject binary and/or traditional gender and sexual norms. It’s not necessarily a sexual orientation but encompasses a spectrum of non-heteronormative identities.
A person whose biological sex characteristics do not fit traditional binary notions of male or female bodies. The Intersex Society of North America defined intersex as “a general term used for a variety of conditions in which a person is born with a reproductive or sexual anatomy that doesn’t seem to fit the typical definitions of female or male.”
A person who does not experience sexual attraction. Asexuality exists on a spectrum, and some people may experience a low level of sexual attraction or attraction only under specific circumstances, called graysexual or demisexual.
A person who supports and stands up for the rights of the LGBTQIA+ community, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity. Being an ally means actively working on challenging discrimination and supporting equal rights, listening to and learning from LGBTQIA+ people, and using their privilege to help make the world more inclusive.
A sexual orientation that describes a person who is attracted to people of all gender identities. This can include people who identify as cisgender, transgender, gender non-conforming, gender fluid, or non-binary. For a pansexual person, the gender of a person is not a factor in their attraction, and they may be attracted to individuals who identify as male, female, neither or any combination of genders. Pansexuality can also be considered an attraction that goes beyond the traditional male/female binary and includes a wider range of gender identities. Some people may use the term pansexual to explicitly reject the gender binary, seeing it as restrictive or meaningless in describing their attraction. People who identify as pansexual may also use other labels, such as queer, to describe their attraction.
Non-binary is a term that describes individuals who do not identify as exclusively male or female. They may identify as neither, a combination of genders, or a gender different from the one they were assigned at birth. They may also use other terms such as genderqueer, genderfluid, or bigender to describe their identities and express their gender identity through clothing, hairstyles, pronouns, and/or medical transitioning. Non-binary individuals still fight for recognition and rights in many societies, but their existence and experiences are valid and deserve respect and understanding.
Questioning is a journey of self-discovery. It’s an ongoing process of exploring one’s sexuality, gender identity, and gender expression. It’s a journey of self-discovery that allows us to understand and accept ourselves and find a sense of belonging. It also denotes the inclusion of individuals who question their identities and their place in the LGBTQIA+ community.
Gender expression is an individual’s unique way of communicating their gender identity to the world. It’s how one presents themselves through appearance, behavior, and self-expression. Gender expression is a form of self-expression and a personal choice; it’s a means of expressing our individuality and creativity.