It should come as no surprise that the rates of substance abuse in the gay community are significantly higher than …
Are Gay Bars Bad for Gay Relationships?
The Dilemma An ongoing argument exists in our community over whether gay bars pose a threat to gay relationships. The …
Men for Men: Geosocial Mapping & User Experience
If you are reading this article you probably stumbled upon it by by searching for keyword combinations like “men for …
Wishes from the Wisdom Tree
On this smoggy, temperate Sunday afternoon, I led by boyfriend and very small dog up the long trek to the …
Do You Deserve It? The Science Behind Self-Indulgence
Do you remember the last time you rewarded yourself for the hard work you put into a project, an intense …
The Headless Torso: Communicating on Gay Apps
The emergence of location-based dating applications such as Grindr, Tinder, and Jack’d, has forever changed the way we as a …
“Party Friends” vs. “Clear-Weather Friends”
As gay men we are keen and savvy partygoers, often planning out our social events and associated attire months (or …
The Social Media “Unfollow” and the Ex Boyfriend
During my closeted years in high school I met a boy with whom I had my first gay sexual experience. …
